Honesty really is the best policy online dating
Lying, telling porkies, fibbing — call it what you like — doesn’t do you or anyone else any favours.In fact, I’d argue that you’re doing a disservice to those you love and respect if your relationship is based on falsehoods. Well, this is where I have to be brutally honest with myself and admit that if they couldn’t withstand a few painful truths, then they weren’t worth much to start with.I'm busy, I'm sure you're busy, we're both here so we obviously have lost a little hope in finding whatever the fuck it is we're looking for organically, so let's cut through the bullshit and let me tell you all the reasons you probably don’t want to date me to save us both some effort. They’re young and awesome, but get one drop of sugar in them and you’re dealing with a feeding-Gremlins-after-midnight situation. On the plus side, my little guys both have the same baby daddy, so if we get serious, there’s only one dude you have to engage in awkward interactions with. Oh, and my job requires I travel a lot, often at last minute’s notice. I KNOW I promised I’d be your date for dinner with your CEO, but I have to go to Wyoming. When I’m not building forts, stepping in forgotten hairballs, traveling the country or typing furiously on my laptop into the early-morning hours, I’m staring at my phone. I’m a comic, so yes, everything you say and do can and will be used against you on stage in hopes I can make strangers laugh. Related: I have the goddamn mouth of a fucking sailor. Comedy is mostly a man’s world so I’m always surrounded by dudes. And while I act like it’s a burden and I want people to just like me for me, don’t let it fool you, I eat every fucking second of it up. Speaking of, I’m an atheist, and while I’m tolerant of other people’s beliefs, just know I lost respect for you when you began asking an imaginary dude for favors, aka praying.
From that point on, if I was asked for an honest opinion, then I would give it.
Simply saying ‘No thanks, doesn’t sound like my sort of thing,’ when a friend invites me to something I don’t want to attend is so much easier than scrabbling around for a genuine-sounding excuse — which you’ll have to try to remember the next time you bump into one another!
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There’s nothing more embarrassing than pouring your heart out to someone who doesn’t feel the same way. Whatever the reason, it may not be the best thing to admit during a job interview.