Do not move in because you don’t want to lose him, if he is as sweet as he pretends to be waiting will not be a problem. The biggest number one without fail sign of a narcissist is how they sweep you off your feet at the beginning of the relationship.
Dating a narcissist is, sadly, a fairly common occurrence for men and women, and knowing how to identify one is necessary for your sanity and self-esteem.
Before we get to the signs to watch out for, understand that no one is a fool for dating a narcissist.
You cannot convince a narcissist to see their behavior as hurtful. We all have selfish and/or narcissistic tendencies, but the difference lies in the lack of empathy narcissists display towards their partners and the inability to take responsibility for things that go wrong. (See The Human Magnet Syndrome by Ross Rosenberg for more information.) The most extreme narcissists will appear warm and inviting, but their motivation is to draw you into a relationship with them, and when the first sign of conflict arises or you express disappointment or challenge them, their deep sense of shame ignites narcissistic rage or manipulation in the form of gaslighting.
Someone who is grandiose, has a lack of empathy for other people, and has a desperate need for admiration and attention is often described as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD.) In Greek Mythology, Narcissus was known for his own beauty and was in love with himself.
Of course, not all bad behavior can be clinically diagnosed as NPD. But they usually slip back into their old ways when they feel that the person will not leave.” RELATED: Guys who post lots of selfies have more narcissistic, psychopathic tendencies Just because a narcissist has little empathy for others, it doesn't mean he lacks feelings.