When to go exclusive when dating
Of my friends who entered into relationships in the past year, every single one of them first entered a period of exclusivity before even remotely venturing into "boyfriend/girlfriend" territory.
It is now expected that a couple will first hookup for a significant -- albeit unsubstantial -- period of time, only to then qualify their pseudo relationship with vague promises of monogamy.
in essence, she is his girlfriend in everything but name.
It's hardly news that conventional dating norms have gone out the window and, with them, so too have traditional dating labels.
"Boyfriend" and "girlfriend" seem to share the same fate as the now arcane "going steady." People are still dating -- sure -- but recently, would-be couples less readily refer to one another as "boyfriend" or "girlfriend," opting instead for basic , sans label.
Luckily, catching feelings doesn’t end in an untimely death, but it can end in you acting like a fool and getting your heart broken.
Which is like, basically an untimely death in emo-terms.
Determining the seriousness of our relationship, however, can be very challenging and confusing.